Chapter 2 - The Family Who Thought They Knew Better
My parents always believed they knew better than me.
When I married Preston, they loved him before they knew him.
He wore expensive watches, paid restaurant bills with a smile, and talked about “taking care of family” like money was the same thing as character.
When I left him, they called me ungrateful.
They did not care that behind closed doors he was cold. That he cheated. That he vanished for days and returned with gifts instead of apologies. They did not care that Ella started hiding whenever he raised his voice.
“He’s her father,” my mother said. “You can’t erase that.”
I never erased him.
I protected her from him.
But protection never impressed my family as much as money did.
After the divorce, I kept helping them anyway.
Mortgage transfers when my parents were short.
Utility bills.
Car repairs.
Emergency cash for my sister Briana, who was always one crisis away from needing someone else’s wallet.
I told myself I was keeping peace.
Really, I was paying rent on being tolerated.
Then they asked to take Ella to Miami.
“Just a family vacation,” Mom said. “She’ll be with her cousins. She needs fun.”
I hesitated.
Briana laughed over the phone.
“Dana, stop acting like we’re strangers. We’re her family.”
That word still worked on me then.
Family.
So I packed Ella’s yellow floral dress, her sunscreen, her pink backpack, and her favorite hair clips.
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I kissed her forehead at the airport and told her to call me every night.
I had no idea my family had already decided my boundaries were optional.
